Truth-or-Dare “Dares” for Married Couples

Truth-or-Dare “Dares” for Married Couples 1

Truth-or-Dare can be a lot of fun, but when you’ve been married for a few years — and maybe have kids in the house — it might start to feel like there aren’t any interesting “dares” left! So here’s a long list of dares that are intended to evoke the embarrassment/challenging tone of truth-or-dare even for couples that have been married for a while and may not be able to play outside their bedroom. (Check out this earlier post for a list of truth-or-dare “truths” for married couples.)

The “dares” are numbered so you can pick one randomly, or use the random sexual truth-or-dare generator!

  1. Pick a sexy song and do a sexy dance; strip off your clothes.
  2. Suck on my toes. (Make sure they’re clean.)
  3. Ask me to draw a tattoo on you in an intimate place you select.
  4. Ask me to take a sexy picture of you.
  5. Do a naked cartwheel.
  6. Play “just the tip” for five minutes.
  7. Perform naked three “charades” that I pick out for you.
  8. Sing the “Happy Birthday Mr. President” song to me.
  9. Ask me to perform oral sex on you with ice in my mouth.
  10. Narrate in detail about the last time we had sex.
  11. Lick whipped cream off my body.
  12. Pick a poem and recite it to me in a sexy way.
  13. Confess to me something you did wrong and ask me to spank you for it.
  14. Give me a tour of your body and point out the parts you like touched.
  15. Go into the other room, call me on the phone, and talk dirty to me.
  16. Do the worm. Naked. Or attempt to do the worm! Still naked.
  17. Do a Star Wars quote in a sexy voice.
  18. Do your favorite movie quote in a sexy way.
  19. Do my favorite movie quote in a sexy way.
  20. Reenact your favorite memory of us as a couple, playing both parts.
  21. Make out with a pretend me, like a pillow or stuffed animal.
  22. Blindfold me and play “guess the body part” by rubbing yourself against me.
  23. Convince me to loan you the $50 you really need. You’ll do anything.
  24. Naked mime.
  25. Air guitar your favorite song naked.
  26. Air guitar my favorite song naked.
  27. Call a friend or family member and talk for two minutes while I perform oral sex on you.
  28. Ask me to give you a hickey.
  29. Play with yourself for two minutes while I watch.
  30. Make the sounds I make when I climax.
  31. Make the sounds that you make when you climax.
  32. Perform oral sex on my finger the way that you like me to perform oral on you.
  33. Do whatever you think would convince me to buy you as my sex slave.
  34. Write something sexy on your body that you think I’d like to see.
  35. Kiss and nibble my neck for two minutes.
  36. Give me a lap dance.
  37. Take off a piece of my clothing with your mouth.
  38. Eat something sweet off my body.
  39. Feed me off of your body — remember, presentation is everything!
  40. Get me aroused without touching me.
  41. Pose for me while I (pretend) to take sexy pictures of you.
  42. Initiate sex with me the way I do with you.
  43. Play sock wrestling with me.
  44. Play naked Marco Polo with me.
  45. Beg me to spank you as many times as I think appropriate for being naughty.
  46. Beg me to kiss you.
  47. Give me a sexual order.
  48. Lick and kiss me all over my body.
  49. Put your finger in your butt.
  50. Ask to put your finger in my butt.
  51. Ask me to put my finger in your butt.
  52. Recite a poem to me while I play with you.
  53. Play hard-to-get until I pin you down.
  54. Do 10 naked jumping jacks.
  55. Crawl across the floor on your belly and kiss my feet.
  56. Role-play professor and student; you pick who is who.
  57. Run your fingertips all over my body.
  58. Sit on my butt and massage my back and shoulders for a few minutes.
  59. Kiss me all over my back.
  60. Put my head in your lap and rub my head for two minutes.
  61. Ask me to tickle you for two minutes.
  62. Write something on your body that I have to search you for.
  63. Ask me to handcuff you for two minutes while I have my way with you.
  64. Ask me to blindfold you for two minutes while I play with you.
  65. Ask me to put a gag on you for two minutes.
  66. Give me a guided tour of your sexual features and functions.
  67. Ask me any truth you want and perform oral on me while I answer.
  68. Be naked for the rest of the day, except for a robe when necessary.
  69. Bring me something good to drink and serve it to me sensually.
  70. Ask permission before you climax next time.
  71. Use lube on your hands or fingers and play with me for two minutes.
  72. Lick my inner thighs.
  73. Straddle my lap while I reach around and rub your back.
  74. Don’t touch me for two minutes while I stand naked directly in front of you.
  75. Lay on top of me completely still for two minutes.
  76. While I’m standing, kneel down and pleasure me for two minutes.
  77. Ask me to put you in the spreader bar.
  78. Ask me to suspend you by your hands overhead.
  79. Position yourself sexually using a wedge pillow.
  80. Rub baby oil or lotion all over your body.
  81. Ask me to rub baby oil or lotion all over your body.
  82. Show me how you’d thank me for saving your life.
  83. Wash me in the shower.
  84. Stimulate me with your feet or toes.
  85. Naughty Santa: Sit on my lap, confess your naughty misdeeds, and tell me what you want for Christmas.
  86. For Wife: Take my balls into your mouth and play with them for two minutes.
  87. For Wife: Show me how deep you can take me into your mouth.
  88. For Wife: Rub your lady bits all over my body.
  89. For Wife: While I’m sitting, rub your lady bits on my knee or hand to turn yourself on.
  90. For Wife: Put your finger in your vagina and then suck on it.
  91. For Wife: Take me into your vagina and then lick me off.
  92. For Wife: Spread your legs and your labia to give me a good view of your lady bits.
  93. For Wife: Bend over and spread your cheeks open so I can see your butt.
  94. For Wife: Play with your nipples for two minutes.
  95. For Wife: Play with your breasts for two minutes.
  96. For Wife: Stare into my eyes while you use a vibrator on yourself for two minutes.
  97. For Wife: Call me “sir” for the rest of the day.
  98. For Wife: Don’t wear panties for the rest of the day.
  99. For Wife: Take me into your butt as much as possible for two minutes.
  100. For Wife: Ride me hard for two minutes and do your best to to make me climax.
  101. For Wife: Sit on my lap and wiggle around for two minutes.
  102. For Wife: Ask me to ejaculate on your face.
  103. For Wife: Ask me to ejaculate on your breasts.
  104. For Wife: Tell me, “I am your sex slave. Please use my holes for your pleasure.”
  105. For Wife: Talk to my penis for two minutes and tell him how great he is and what you like about him.
  106. For Wife: Rub your lady bits up and down my penis without penetration.
  107. For Wife: Bring me to orgasm with nothing beyond making out.
  108. For Husband: Massage my breasts for two minutes.
  109. For Husband: Lick my nipples for two minutes.
  110. For Husband: Pick me up and throw me on the bed.
  111. For Husband: Pick me up and carry me around the house.
  112. For Husband: Use thumb-and-finger zoom technique on me for two minutes.
  113. For Husband: Put your fingers inside me and ask me any truth you want.
  114. For Husband: Manhandle me however you want for two minutes.
  115. For Husband: Put your finger into my vagina and then lick it off.
  116. For Husband: Pound me hard for two minutes without climaxing.
  117. For Husband: Stare into my eyes while you play with yourself for two minutes.
  118. For Husband: Tell me, “I am your sex slave. Please pleasure yourself with my body.”
  119. For Husband: Talk to my lady bits for two minutes and tell her how great she is and what you like about her.
  120. For Husband: Rub the head of your penis all over my lady bits without penetration.
  121. For Husband: Bend me over in front of a mirror and take me hard and fast from behind till you climax.
  122. For Husband: Bring me to orgasm with your fingers while your penis is motionless inside me.

Do you have any other ideas for “dares”? Share them in the comments!

11 comments

  1. Is it me or is it hot in here?????
    The insight these dares give me into what couples might / do get up to is opening my eyes somewhat, both in terms of what you are willing to talk about and also the vulnerability and openness towards one another.
    This is actually how God wants us to be with each other, surely. I **really** hope this can help me even begin to open up to my wife of 3 decades to talk about how we relate to each other, especially as we are spending every hour of every day in the same house alone……. God bless you and your marriage.

    1. Glad you enjoyed the post! I just prayed for you and your wife. We hope you can have a great conversation together.

      1. Thanks for that El. May I call you El?
        We’ve not had a chat yet but we had a lovely long hug this morning which I’m hoping might become a daily occurrence. And we can talk while we hug right? It might be just the trigger I need to finally day something.

        I must say I’m totally amazed at the things on your dare list. I never dreamed that people do most of that stuff. Maybe not many people do. Do you think you are unusual or do you have friends who are as free to talk about and practise such intimacy as you do here?

        Hope you are well in the current situation and what an opportunity it is to ‘get acquainted’ with one another.

        1. Afriend: be brave! You may be pleasantly surprised.

          We don’t talk much about sex with our in-person friends, and this blog is pseudonymous so no one knows we write it.

          “I must say I’m totally amazed at the things on your dare list.”

          I think many of these items would push the boundaries/expectations/comfort for many people, including us — that’s the point!

  2. A couple more

    120. For Wife: Try to get me to climax by just making out.

    121. For Husband: Bend me over in front of a mirror and take me hard and fast from behind till you climax.

    122. For Husband: Try to get me to climax with manual stimulation while your penis is motionless inside me.

      1. I wondered why there were 3 more than were listed last night!

        We did several of these last night as foreplay, pushing a comfort zone or two, and it was fantastic! Thanks! (Yes, I did talk to my wife’s vulva last night…)

        Another one you can add–you have one about posing, but that is positions of the poser’s choice. I would like to see one where the viewer requests a certain pose.

        -Scott

        1. We use these as foreplay also, and just reload if the selection isn’t practical in the moment :)

          Re: posing, the intent is for the pretend-photographer to choose the pose. I’ll edit to clarify!

  3. Additional Dares:

    For Her: ask if you can give him a prostate massage/milk his prostate.

    For Him: ask her to massage/milk your prostate.

    Ask for a rimjob.

    Ask if you can give a rimjob.

    Can we try ANR/dry nursing/suckling?

    (If the wife is lactating) For Her: ask him to drink milk from your breasts.

    (If the wife is lactating) For Him: ask if you can drink milk from her breasts.

    For Her: (before blowjob) ask if you can swap/kiss his cum to him after he ejaculates.

    For Him: after blowjob, ask her to kiss you and give your cum back.

    For Him: ask if you can cum on her breasts/stomach/back/butt and then lick it up.

    For Her: ask him to cum on your breasts/stomach/back/butt and then lick it up.

    For Him: ask if you can lick your cum out of her after intercourse.

    For Her: ask him to lick his cum out of you after intercourse.

      1. We’ve done a few… not all. Of the one’s we’ve done, once you get up the courage to actually ask, they’ve all be worth it.

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