Sexy Corte and I launched this blog on May 13th, 2014, and over this past weekend we hit two milestones: 3,000 subscribers and 4 million page views! We view this blog as a ministry, and it’s very gratifying to be used by God to reach so many people with our simple message: God wants your sex life with your spouse to be awesome!
If this ministry has been valuable to you and your marriage, please consider sharing our blog with your friends and family. If you have a website or blog, please consider linking to us. I know… awkward! Here are a few links that might be easier to share because they aren’t as explicit as most of our content.
Thank you for your emails and comments over the years. If you haven’t subscribed yet, you can find the button in our left sidebar right under the search box — we never send spam or share your info with anyone. We pray for our readers frequently, and we hope that God blesses your marriages over this holiday season.
Sexy Corte and I have updated the Vision and Mission for the Married Christian Sex Ministry, which primarily consists of this blog. This may not be of interest to many readers, but we want to share our thinking and get feedback if you have any ideas!
The Vision describes what we want to be and accomplish. The Mission describes how we will make our vision a reality.
The Married Christian Sex Ministry will glorify God, edify the institution of marriage, and encourage married couples to nurture and grow their sex life together.
- Explain how Biblical concepts can be applied to sex in marriage.
- Share fun, exciting, and challenging sex ideas for couples to try.
- Encourage married couples to invest in their sex life to make it the best it can be through honest communication and bold action.
- Answer questions from readers with Bible-based sex advice, and pray for readers and their marriages.
This blog has received over 3.5 million views since we started exactly six years ago! That’s not huge, but we’re still very excited to see and hear how God is using this ministry to build up marriages. Thank you for being part of it.
Happy New Year to all our readers! We hope your Christmas was amazing and that 2020 is a blessed year for your marriage. Thank you for reading our blog and for sharing your experiences and challenges with us. If you enjoy our blog or podcast please share them with a friend!
It’s incredibly gratifying to hear from our readers, whether it’s in celebration or heartbreak. Please use this comment thread to share your best sexual experience from 2019 and any sexual goals you may have for your marriage in 2020.
We’ll go first!
Best sexual experience from 2019: Having sex on a paddle-boat in a lake after midnight under a full moon. The whole night was amazingly intimate, and the lake sex topped it off.
Sexual goals for 2020: Learning for El Fury to give and Sexy Corte to receive orgasms more easily in a greater variety of positions. We’re making progress on this existing goal, and we’re going to continue in 2020.
Your turn! (If you don’t see the comments section, scroll all the way down on the individual post and click “load comments”.)
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Happy Valentine’s Day! Do something sweet and sexy for your spouse, even if your schedule and energy are dominated by your kids and responsibilities. Sexy Corte made me an awesome Valentine card from construction paper, and I’m cooking chili tonight for a special dinner — mostly special because she doesn’t have to cook.
Coincidentally, I just checked our stats and we’re sure to hit One Million total readers today! It’s 999,897, and I’m eager to watch it roll into seven digits. We really enjoy writing for you (and for ourselves), so thanks for dropping by. Don’t hesitate to shoot us an email (links are on the left) or leave a comment.
The site was down briefly yesterday, but if you’re reading this then you know it’s back up now. There was some sort of problem with the auto-renewal setting of the domain name. Thanks to everyone who sent us a message to tell us about the error — it would have taken longer to resolve otherwise.
The new year is fully upon us, so how about a round-up of our top sex posts from 2015? This list isn’t necessarily just the posts that have gotten the most hits, it also includes posts that received a lot of comments or shares. We’d love for you to share some of these links with your friends!
- Yes, You Should Swallow — It shouldn’t be a surprise anyone that the most-read and most-discussed post on the site continues to be about oral sex and swallowing. This is also the topic that generates the most email for us, and it has led to follow-on posts that are also very popular: Q&A: How Do I Get My Wife to Swallow and Enjoy It? and “He was thrilled!” — Swallowing and Enjoying It. Wives, if you want to know what your husband wants more of sexually, if you want to do one thing to improve your sex life, I think it’s pretty clear from our traffic what you can do.
- Sex Questions and Answers — Sexy Corte gets a lot more questions than I do, and her answers get some of the most hits on the site. Top entries include Q&A: Sex in Public Places, Q&A: How Can We Reinvigorate Our Sex Life Now that the Kids Have Moved Out?, and Q&A: Jaw Pain While Giving Oral Sex. If you have a question, ask Sexy Corte or ask El Fury using those links.
- Sex in Song of Solomon series — Many people have enjoyed our look at the sexual imagery in Song of Solomon. Of course it’s a metaphor for the love Christ has for the church, but it’s also a love letter. And yes, I’ll finish the series eventually.
- Sexy Adult Jenga — Our Jenga post has been number two on the site for a long time, though it hasn’t generated a lot of comments. Sexy Body Part Twister and the associated spinner are also high on the list. The whole sex games category is pretty popular, and there are a ton of ideas in there for having some playful fun with your spouse.
- Bondage for Beginners: What, Why, and How — Our guide to getting started with bondage play is our most-pinned post on Pinterest. I think a lot of people are interested in bondage play but are embarrassed to bring it up with their spouses and don’t know how to get started. Perhaps Intro to Shibari, Japanese Rope Bondage will be the break-out hit of 2016?
- Sex Adventure Generator and Naughty Story Generator — these generators get a lot of traffic, and I hope they get some use in the bedroom. They require a little imagination to apply, but we actually think that’s a benefit. They can both be loaded conveniently in your phone, so they’re easy to have on hand when you’re ready to play. Just reading them with your spouse can be fun foreplay!
- How to Rub a Clitoris: Pulling Back the Curtain — Basic advice for husbands who aren’t quite sure what to do, and wives who aren’t quite sure how to guide them. We hope that every hit to this page has led to a very happy wife! Other popular “How To” posts include How to Spank Your Wife and How To Give Your Husband a Topless Haircut.
- Sex Position Guides and Guidelines, Advanced Sex Positions, Best Sex Positions For People with Back Pain — Lots of people are looking for new (to them) sex positions, and we’re happy to oblige! 80% of the time a couple will stick to their favorite few positions, but it’s great to change things up once in a while. Variations and Tips for Doggy Style is the most popular post about a specific position, so if you’re looking for something new that’s a good place to start.
- Wearing and Using a Vibrator in Public and Part 2 — We still haven’t actually done it! But it will happen soon. There will be an update.
- The Importance of Enthusiasm and The Importance of Sexual Responsiveness — Ok, these aren’t the most popular posts, but they’re two that I’m most proud of.
Thanks for being a part of our community for the past two years. If you like what you find here please share the site with a friend!
The holidays can be extremely stressful (gifts, family, travel, memories…), so we’d like to encourage you to manage your stress by keeping things simple. You don’t have to live up to everyone else’s expectations for Christmas! Most of the stress is self-imposed by things you “have to do” — but many of those things are completely optional. For example, Sexy Corte and I decided long ago that we aren’t going to send out a thousand Christmas cards to everyone we know. Pick a few traditions you want for your family and prioritize those, then let go of the rest.
When you simplify a bit, you’ll have more energy and sanity to enjoy the time with your family, kids, and spouse, as well as to meditate on the True Meaning of Christmas. Remember that Jesus didn’t come to earth just to be a baby, he came to die on the cross for the sins of mankind and then come back to life to conquer death for all eternity.
May you all have a joyful and simple Christmas!
Just a quick note to say thank you to all our readers, and especially to those who are kind enough to link back to us and share our blog with their friends. Sexy Corte and I have been writing here for over a year-and-a-half now, and we’re having a blast. Last month we hit a milestone — over 1,000 visitors per day! That’s pretty astounding. We’re grateful and excited that you’ve decided to read our blog, and we pray that our musings are edifying to your marriage.
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