We use a vibrator when we have sex to help Sexy Corte reach orgasm easily and reliably, but this ties up one of my hands and limits our range of positions — what to do? Well, we’ve finally found a solution, at least for one position!
When we have sex, Sexy Corte typically starts on top and rides me while I use an egg vibrator on her clitoris until she has one or more orgasms. This is the easiest position for her to climax and we use it 90% of the time. One of the reasons this position has worked so well for us is that it’s comfortable for me to hold the vibrator against her and it’s comfortable for both of us for her to straddle me. Unlike most of the sex positions you’ll find online, we can actually hold this position until Sexy Corte orgasms!
This usual approach works very well, but we enjoy trying new things and I’ve wanted to find some way to comfortably reach Sexy Corte with a vibrator in another position — and even better would be finding a way to free up my hands for other activities. So here’s what we’re experimenting with right now.
We’ve written a lot about the doggy style position, and now we’ve found a couple of toys that can help Sexy Corte reach orgasm in this position while keeping my hands free! The first is an inflatable tube-shaped bolster pillow with a mysterious hole built into it. What’s the hole for? The item description doesn’t say. It could be for anything… your remote control, your tiny drink… who knows?
Well, we found the perfect thing to stick in the hole: our wand vibrator.
The process is simple:
- Turn the wand vibrator on and push the handle down into the hole on the pillow. The hole is tight enough to hold the vibrator securely in position.
- Turn the pillow so the head of the vibrator is sticking out and pointing up.
- Wife straddles the pillow so the vibrator is on her clitoris, and bends over into the doggy style position.
- Wife rests her body on the pillow and rubs against the vibrator while husband enters her from behind.
We’re still experimenting with this new hands-free vibrator position — we aren’t used to the position yet so Sexy Corte takes longer to climax and I have trouble holding my orgasm back! Obviously we need a lot more practice.
Now that we’ve found a hands-free way to use a vibrator there must be a ton of other positions to try it in. Do you have any suggestions? Have you found any other ways to use a vibrator hands-free? Let us know in the comments.
Care to share a link to the ‘inflatible bolster pillow’?
My wife can lay face down on the bed, put the wand head on her clit and have the handle face down between her legs. I can still enter her from behind and neither one of us has to hold onto the vibrator. The only trick is lining it up right in the first place.
Are you guys using a pillow while your wife is face down to better reach her vagina or possibly anal? Are you straddling with her legs closed and then you enter? Trying to get a visual because I’m seeing discomfort for wife due to the vibrator or lack of depth on the husband’s part.
Yes, Sexy Corte straddles the pillow face-down, in doggy style position. This position puts her clitoris right on the vibrator and allows for very deep penetration. Just imagine doggy style like normal, but with the pillow beneath her, between her legs and arms and under her torso.
BTW, I found something similar if not what was mentioned in the post on Amazon.
Inflatable Pillow Wedge Pillow Knee Pillow ergonomically Designed Pillow (Blue)-LGG
by GGuc6
Learn more: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B088D1LQRL/
That’s pretty much it. There seem to be many similar products on Amazon, but they can probably be bought elsewhere also.
El Fury where did you get the pillow that holds the vibrator? Also is there a particular place you purchase the toys for you and Sexy Corte?
We don’t generally link to products on our page, but you can find these toys at your friendly neighborhood internet retailer :)
I guess my question is why would you require it to be hands free? We are huge fans of doggy style + vibe, it’s our #1 go to, but we have her control/handle the vibrator. I mentioned it on the last doggy style thread (the one where LT hated the position), but using modifications like “Turtle” or “Man on Fire” might help make it easier to free up Sexy Corte’s hand:
https://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/turtle/
https://www.christianfriendlysexpositions.com/man-on-fire/
I do understand about the struggle to last long enough to give her the opportunity to climax. Doggy style is the most stimulating position for me, plus I wasn’t a long laster to begin with, so it’s taken a lot of training for me to be able to control myself. With lots of practice (yay!), I’ve gotten mastery over it and actually can’t last as long in some other positions now due to unfamiliarity even though they are technically less physically stimulating. Keep practicing!
Oh, and I am always amazed at how different each couple is. Her orgasming with doggy + vibe is by far our most reliable method, and she can’t even O without a vibe at all. We’re dabbling in getting her an O in missionary + vibe, but we have yet to succeed. This seems the opposite of so many!
-Scott
For some reason, Sexy Corte isn’t very stimulated when she’s holding the vibrator herself. She says it’s like trying to tickle herself, and it doesn’t get her to orgasm. Who knows. My arms would need to be a foot longer for me to reach her clitoris with a vibrator while in doggy style!
Definitely understand about not being able to reach the clit…and even if reached, it would interfere significantly with my ability to thrust.
As for the “can’t tickle yourself”, I don’t know if I’ve heard that expressed quite that way anywhere else. Clearly, many women can vibe (or hand) themselves to O…and better than their husbands can. For us, I can’t even wield the vibe successfully at all (yet), as it’s like a game of whack-a-mole trying to target her pleasurable spot(s) as they move around–she really needs the internal feedback loop to hit her ever-moving pleasure spot. The one story that most sounds like yours I’ve read is an account where a woman was singly-orgasmic if she used the vibe, but she turned into an orgasmic monster if her husband wielded it–we’re talking never-ending multiple O’s with crazy intensity. She’d get to the point of mental and physical exhaustion, which is when they’d quit, then she’d be sore (muscles, not “down there”) the next day(s) because of all her spasming. Certainly we don’t have any experience like that.
-Scott
Yeah, I figured that would work for Sexy Corte too, but apparently not. It’s ok… I like being the only person who has ever given her an orgasm :)
Dose she use an Hitachi Magic Wand? My wife grinds with it, strokes with it. She says she has never been tickled by it. But she’s off-the-charts with orgasms. Amazing to watch. I help out with one-two fingers or a stainless-steel Kegel sizer we call Steely Dan. Can use thin cloth between the head and the vulva if the vibes are too intense. Highly recommend. We use as foreplay sometimes.
We use an off-brand vibrator that is similar to a Hitachi Magic Wand. Yeah, it’s awesome!
Liberator makes a wedge pillow with a pocket specifically designed for wands. They can be use with or without the wand. Married Dance carries a few like this. https://marrieddance.com/product-category/sex-furniture/toy-mounts/
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We have clitoral suction vibe and my wife says it’s AMAZING. She likes to just hold it on herself when we do doggy. If we’re spooning though, she can pin it between her legs and be hands free.
The other position we really like is with her on her back and me kneeling upright between her legs. I hold her ankles and spread her wide or push on the back of her thighs to roll her hips up. That allows me to thrust really deep while she holds the suction vibe on herself. It’s an incredible view/show for me and a few times she has even been able to squirt. Feeling the warm rush slashing out of her against me is fantastic.
We have one of those and Sexy Corte likes it, but we haven’t used it a ton. It takes a while for her to get used to something new.