Sexy Corte and I recently purchased a We-Vibe II. SC has an easier time climaxing with a vibrator, and we thought that the We-Vibe would give us some positional options that our trusty egg vibrator doesn’t allow.
The way you use the We-Vibe is pretty simple: the narrow arm (on the bottom in the picture above) is inserted into the vagina and the larger arm nestles over the clitoris. The U-shape is springy enough to hold it in place, and the device is completely sealed so you can lube the whole thing up. The battery is sealed inside and charges by induction from the included charger. This means that it takes 16+ hours to charge fully, but there’s no port on the outside that could get gummed up or let liquid inside.
We were pretty excited to try the We-Vibe II when it arrived, but we had to wait a day while it charged. Bummer! The next evening we were especially horny and we leaped into bed. The device itself is easy to apply to the woman — just slip it in and position the outer arm in the right place. Unfortunately we ran into two problems that ruined the experience for us.
First and foremost, the vibration just didn’t do it for Sexy Corte. It was pretty weak and she said that it didn’t hit the right spot. We moved it around and played with it extensively, but even when I used my hands to manipulate the vibrator she said that it just wasn’t going to get her to orgasm.
Second, it was uncomfortable for me during penetration. We used a lot of lube, but the vibrator itself rubbed me the wrong way while entering and thrusting. It felt pretty much like you’d expect: like rubbing the slippery tube of a magic marker across my erection. Distracting and unsexy.
So despite really wanting to like it, neither of us got much pleasure from the We-Vibe II. We’re going to stick with our egg vibrator.
Update: MarriedHeat has a review of the We-Vibe 4 Plus which includes remote activation. Seems like they liked it more than we liked ours.
I read this complaint from other women and men too. For the women it wasn’t the “right” size and wouldn’t position properly and reliably. For men it was uncomfortable. Not to be a “nosy pussycat” to quote Roman Polanski, but did you try it doggie with the vibe contacting the lower side of your penis? I would seem less irritating that way to me, while still not likely to make things any better for SC.
No, didn’t try it that way. It wasn’t strong enough when I pressed it on SC with my hand, so there was no way it would work in doggy-style.
Did you post about the We-Vibe on your blog?
I have yet to do a post that strictly addresses toys. I have mentioned some as it applied contextually to the content of a post, but have yet to feel an urging to do a full-blown toy post.
We have used the We-vibe and actually like it. We love to use toys, lube, powders, and lots of misc. stuff. We liked using the We-vibe when doing it doggy style. It was fun for both of us. I have also used it like you would a bullet because it’s so quiet that the children can’t hear us.
We will have to try it doggy style! I love the concept of the We-vibe, and we were really excited about it. It just didn’t seem to hit me right. Maybe doggy style is the trick.
I must say that the WE-Vibe was a massive let-down for me and my wife. My wife is super multi orgasmic and cums very easy, but the We-Vibe just does not do it for her at all. WE bought a “Swan” as well from the same manufacturer. Now THAT is a toy to have. Super and exciting. It is slightly slower but builds up to a super orgasm every time.
Oh goody, a recommendation! What version of the Swan did you get? There seem to be several options.
Our We-Vibe just didn’t get her there, and it wasn’t comfortable for me when it was in place either. I agree, it was disappointing.
We have the Kissing Swan Rabbit – It is a super-duper toy. It is slightly slower for my wife to ‘get there’, but she has absolutely superior orgasms with it.
If my Google search is correct, the Kissing Swan Rabbit is a dildo vibrator, right? What’s the best way you’ve found to incorporate it into your lovemaking?
With the fact that my wife is multi-orgasmic, we often start with her just lying back and inserting the Swan. It has numerous different settings. The dildo part has a movement that goes round-and-round and that really hits all the right spots while the part that is directed towards the clit has a very high speed vibration setting. Once she starts cumming, she does not stop and will have 5 of 6 orgasms in a row without stopping. In this time I will be playing with her in different ways. She will often take s short break just to recover and start again for the next set of orgasms. When I enter her, she is so primed that she often cums as I enter her and would have another two or three orgasms before I do.
Do you do this method most times you have sex? It sounds like you’ve found something that works great for you guys!
No, we have many games that we play and we have a large selection of toys.
We love our We-Vibe 4. I’ve written about our experiences on our webpage. Read our reviews here:
http://www.marriedheat.com/connect-we-vibe-4-plus/
and the follow-up
http://www.marriedheat.com/we-connect-with-the-we-vibe-4-plus-follow-up/
Heather loves it stand-alone but we’ve used it several times as we make love.
Her fave toy is the little Bullet Vibrator. Her G-Spot isn’t as sensitive as her clit so the bullet is better for her. She used it in the car on a road trip we took last summer. That can be read here:
http://www.marriedheat.com/welcome-satisfaction-nevada-population-2/
Have you guys tried the Lelo Ida?
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00G43ZRCS/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pd_S_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=1NRMQHY2ETH16&coliid=I2RA02JVTJ6OR2&psc=1
Nope, have you? Do you like it?