It’s amazing that God created our bodies in such an intricate way that no matter how old you are, or how long you have been married, you can still discover something new about yourself. El Fury and I have had a lot of fun doing trivia nights, and during one of these EF was playing around and we discovered something that drove me absolutely wild. Our go-to vibrator is the egg vibrator, but sometimes it’s nice to have a long, slow burn. The wand vibrator is great for this, especially during something like a trivia night where you are engaged in sexual play for a while. EF keeps the wand vibrator on me throughout the session and it builds my arousal slowly. Then, after I am highly aroused, he introduces his other hand and teases me. He doesn’t ever penetrate me, but just dances around the edges. It’s maddening! Also exciting and gets me to a point where I am begging for him. Then, he escalates it by doing the same thing with the tip of his penis. I had no idea something could drive me so crazy!
Husbands, do this for your wife. Wives, ask your husband to do this.
Enjoy each other. Discover your spouse’s body. Always be learning.
(See also: Zoom Technique.)
I tell my male clients that sex feels good, why would you want to rush through. National statistics tell us that men take 5-6 minutes for intercourse tops. Slow down and enjoy it, make it last. I have gone as much as two hours. I would alternate between foreplay and intercourse pulling out when I feel the urge to ejaculate. I would then go back down on my wife and get her off again orally or by giving her a G spot orgasm and then climb back on. This results in multiple orgasms for her and her never ever turning me down for intercourse.
According to Kinsey stats, a whopping 72% of all married women over thirty have their husbands on a starvation diet of sex once a week or less. It is because men are so lousy in bed.
Now it is not really their fault, there is no “school for sex” to teach men how to give their wives great sex with the exception of this blog and others like it. But there is nothing that fans a man’s ego like a woman begging him to take her. That involves a lot of foreplay that most men just don’t want to take the time for. So men if you want more sex you have to give your wife better sex.
I agree with what you said 100%! I enjoy how my wife tries to tell me to stop during multiple orgasms but will not let me go because she really wants me to continue.
I have told me often that your wife should be near or having her second orgasm even before you have your first!