This post is also available as a podcast: Podcast #010: How to Use a Wireless Vibrator in Public
We finally had our date night and tried the remote controlled vibrator! It was a naughty adventure. Going out with your spouse and having a sexy secret between the two of you is intoxicating. It doesn’t have to be a remote control vibrator. It could be lingerie, no panties, etc. Or it can be something you plan and share with your spouse partway through the date. One of my all-time favorite dates with El Fury was going out in a skirt, then writing “I’m not wearing panties” on a napkin and sliding it across the table to him. Completely changed the tone of our night together.
Back to last night. The first few times he buzzed me, it was startling and I jumped and gasped a little. So I recommend giving it a few test runs before you’re actually out in public. The car ride to our date location was very distracting (for both of us). It was definitely arousing, but not enough for me to orgasm. I thought it was really sexy to know that EF was thinking about pleasuring me, and loved seeing the sly smile on his face whenever he would use the remote control. Whenever we found a quiet corner I pulled him to the side to make out and fondle him a little. Letting him have that control was a huge turn-on. At one point he let it go so long I started unintentionally touching him to the rhythm of the vibrator. I felt very close and connected to him.
Needless to say, we had sex when we got home!
Great suggestions to mix it up
I’ve been teasing the idea of a wireless vibrator to my wife for a long time, and after probably 2 or 3 years of “We should get one.” “Sure, let’s.” and similar conversations that never led anywhere…
I finally pulled the trigger and purchased one for her instead of dragging my feet. We got the WeJoy Fox G-Spot vibrator, and though she hasn’t worked up the courage to wear it in public, she did let me buzz her around the house. Boy did it work; the first time I lit it up her knees kinda buckled and she let out a little “hmmm” and grabbed the counter. I then had fun trying to make her spill her drink or stumble around to the couch, among other slightly mean things.
Her overall takeaway was that it was very enjoyable, but even the lowest setting was almost too much. I’m thinking we’ll keep playing around the house and maybe work it up to letting me tease her while we’re driving to/from (I’m driving) dinner, before we get to actually using it in true public.
Fun! I find it incredibly arousing to hold the power of the remote in my hand, able to buzz my wife at any time :)