When your spouse’s love language is Acts of Service, it is fun to find new ways to spice up boring chores. You can accomplish a task as well as make your spouse feel loved AND have fun in the process. One of my least favorite chores is cleaning the ceiling fans. I do this chore about once a year. This last round as I got started I decided to do the fan in El Fury’s office last. This allowed me some time to plan a sexy surprise for him. First I made sure to let him overhear me complain about how hot it was. I removed some of my clothing, pulled a chair into his office and set about my task. I immediately had his attention. For me, this was very sexy, to feel like I had captivated him. I loved having his eyes on my while I slowly cleaned his ceiling fan and removed the rest of my clothing in the process. I pulled my hair up as the final touch.
Without saying a word, I walked over and sucked him off in his chair.
I can’t count how many times he has talked about this. He felt loved in a way that most deeply connects to him. Combining your spouse’s love language with sex is a powerful way to speak love into their soul. What is your spouse’s love language? How can you bring that into your sex life?
Sounds like that was a lot of fun for both of you. :) How do you handle a situation like that when you have given your husband an orgasm? Do you walk away without that for yourself? Or do you ask he return the favor? I am just curious, because I have a hard time doing sexy things for my husband that lead to orgasm and walking away with nothing.
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Thanks for the comment! You know, it depends on the day and my mood. If I am just finishing my period and haven’t had an orgasm in a while, I most certainly expect the favor returned! In that case, instead of giving him a blow job I probably would have asked if he would like to go upstairs. Or I might have liked to set an expectation and ask that he return the favor later. There are times though when I am feeling overall very satisfied sexually and I can walk away from it. I think this might have been one of those times. I wanted to show him my love in that way, and it was fun just to watch the look on his face.
I think that is great. :) If I do something sexy, I’m going to be in the mood. Lol.
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SC is very generous! :)
I also try to be generous and never say no. I’m generally eager to give her an orgasm whenever, wherever, and however she wants.
“Spontaneous”…love it. Keep sharing out of the box ideas of pleasing your spouse.
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