We’ve had house-guests for several days and my wife Sexy Corte has been working hard to host them; I took them to the airport very early this morning, and Sexy Corte told me that if I could do it without waking her up she’d do something “special” for me — how could I refuse an offer like that? Thusly motivated, I got our guests to the airport, sent a kid off to school, and then slipped back into bed to cuddle Sexy Corte like a ninja.
So here’s what I’m planning for our special event: a lingerie fashion show! Here are some ideas for how you can do this yourselves. The role-playing elements are optional!
This activity will require some preparation:
- Pick a time that the wife is feeling sexy and confident with her body. This probably isn’t the best activity for right after a big meal or when recovering from an illness. You can track her cycle and plan for an evening when she’s near ovulation and likely to be at peak arousal.
- The wife should select three to five outfits to try on. These can be lingerie, or anything she feels sexy in. The husband can pick some clothes for her also if he’s confident in what she’ll like! The husband should lay out the clothing before the activity begins so it’s ready to use.
- The husband should wear something the wife likes him in, which for us means I’ll wear a suit or sports coat.
- Prepare the space with low light, thumpy music, and a chair for the husband.
- Gather whatever lube, vibrators, washcloths, and other toys you’ll need.
- The wife is a lingerie Model.
- The husband is a fashion show Director, photographer, lingerie purchaser, or some other role that leads him to direct the attire and behavior of the model.
- The core activity of the scenario is the Model trying on various outfits while the Director watches and directs her.
- The Director and Model can tease and stimulate each other during the show, and have sex when they just hold off any longer!
Here are some things the Model can do or say:
- The Model’s attitude can be played in many different ways depending on your inclination. You can be shy, confident, desperate for work, eager to make a sale, chaste, or less-then-chaste.
- Even if you’re playing shy, the Model should show off her body for the Director. You’re trying to get the job or make the sale, so you should proactively display yourself and your lingerie. Invite him to “try out” the lingerie while you’re wearing it by touching your body and teasing you.
- Take your time getting dressed and undressed. You’ll be changing clothes several times, so have fun with it.
- “What do you want me to try on first?”
- “Can you help me take this off?” / “Can you help me put this on?”
- “Do you like how I look from behind?” / “from the front?”
- “How do you want me to stand?” / “Do you want me to kneel down?” / “Do you want me to bend over?”
- “Do you want a closer look?”
- Let go of your inhibitions! No one has a perfect body, but your husband thinks you’re beautiful — that’s why he wants you to model lingerie for him!
Here are some things the Director can do or say:
- The Director’s attitude should be confident. Know what you want. Are you evaluating the Model before offering a job, or considering which lingerie to buy, or something else? Be goal-oriented and direct the Model in a way that helps you make your decision.
- Stay fully clothed for most of the scenario, until it’s necessary for you to remove something “for testing purposes”. For example, you may need to remove your pants in order to test how accessible the Model’s body is in the lingerie.
- “Beautiful”, “perfect”, “lovely”, “magnificent”, “graceful” — praise the Model’s beauty and physical performance. Say these things frequently throughout the show, and never be critical or demeaning. The Model is making herself physically and visually vulnerable, so be sure to praise and affirm her.
- “Stand up”, “sit down”, “kneel”, “lie down” — tell the Model how to position her body.
- Use your hands on the Model to position her exactly how you want. Explore her body while you’re “evaluating” each outfit.
- Tell the Model when to change clothes.
- “Spread your legs”, “bend over”, “get on all fours”, “arch your back” — put the Model into sexually revealing positions, with or without clothes. You’ve got to get a good look at this lingerie from every angle!
When you can’t stand the sexiness anymore, have sex! Talk about your favorite parts of the activity, and stay positive. What did you especially enjoy? Was there anything you wouldn’t choose to do again?
If you like this idea, here are a few related posts that you might enjoy:
- How to Present Your Body to Your Husband For His Admiration
- Role-Playing: Photographer and Model
- Get (and Give) a Better View of the Action
- And check out the role-playing tag for more ideas!
Leave a comment and let us know how you make the most of your lingerie!
Tip from my wife and I’s experiences with lingerie:
Start out with the most comfortable pieces that are easy to get in and out of. It can definitely kill the mood when you’re trying to get lingerie off but it’s taking a lot of effort.
That’s a good idea!
Another tip. Try using lingerie that is “open access” (i.e., allows for intercourse without needing to remove anything). Helps keep the spontaneity going.