We hope the winter weather isn’t getting you down! Here are a few links that might warm things up for you.
Dancing for my husband: finding my inner sexy — Sexy dancing is sexy, and the appeal is the enthusiasm as much as the optics.
She loves foreplay — If he isn’t enjoying foreplay too, maybe you’re doing it wrong. Check out Old Faithful or any of our sex games.
Be a better lover, go out of your comfort zone — Make the most of your sexuality, you only live once.
Use multiple choice questions to learn about your spouse — Great idea! Someone needs to put together a list of multiple choice questions.
Instead of saying, “What do you need from me in bed?” I say, “What is the most important thing from me in bed? A) Paying attention to a particular body part, b) letting you do things to me even if I don’t think I’m in the mood, or c) doing something outside my comfort zone?”
5 ways to flirt — I like the “code words” idea… reminds me of secret message panties.
4 ways to love your husband when he’s being unlovable — #4 is “seduce the dude”, which I can confirm is effective.
Go ahead, be that couple — A little PDA won’t hurt anyone.
Time and sex — Suggestions for being more direct, which may seem unromantic but could nevertheless be helpful in this busy age.
Leave a note saying “Sex for both of us till 10, sex for just you till 11:30, and don’t even look at me sideways after midnight.”
Sleeping arrangements when you’ve got kids — Your bedroom is your sex room, no kids allowed! When I was a kid, I rarely even entered my parents’ bedroom.
Multiple orgasms for men — Kegels, prostate control…. I should try this out, but I’m skeptical. Giving Sexy Corte multiple orgasms is super awesome though.
Wives with higher sex drives — A series with multiple parts. Did women used to have higher sex drives than men?
Love dialects — We’ve written about love languages and sex, and here’s an example of digging deeper into quality time and physical touch.
If you want to share a link or your thoughts, leave a comment!
Love these great posts! Thanks for the roundup.
Glad you like them! There are so many great blogs out there, we love pointing people to new stuff they may not have seen yet.
Thank you so much for including two of my posts. I really appreciate it. This is a great list!
Thanks for writing great stuff we can link to!