For the wives: maybe you want to get your husband worked up all day, or maybe you’re feeling a little shy, but here’s a fun idea for using your panties to send a secret message to your husband.
Basically, the concept is simple – she picks (or randomly chooses) a specific color of panties to wear that day / night when she wants to do something specific. Then she figures out the “menu” and sends it to me via a text or hands me a dirty note. This is my signal that the game is on. It might read:
- White means slow and gentle
- Red means go hard and fast, don’t worry about me
- Blue means lick me til I cum
- Grey means I want your cum all over my face
- Green means I want something in my ass but I’m afraid to ask
- Black means I want to tie you up
- Polka Dots means use a toy
- No panties means anything goes
- Etc. (you can kink up or kink down based on your personal preferences)
Then when we get suitably in the mood, I just pick up on what she’s feeling based on her choice of underwear without ever having to awkwardly discuss how kinky she is feeling that particular night.
You can add a little mystery by getting dressed in the dark, or by making your husband work to catch a glimpse of your panties after sending him the menu.