Merry Christmas everyone! It’s been a while since we rounded up our favorite Christian sex links, so here’s a big list to finish off 2016!
So many posts with gift ideas:
- Stocking stuffers for your husband!
- Fresh gift ideas for your husband!
- Sexy stocking stuffers for him and her!
- Last minute sexy Christmas gifts!
- All he wants for Christmas is a bit of sex!
Can Christians get sex tips from Cosmo? — I guess you could, but honestly, there’s better stuff on our blog and those we link to! For free.
Fellatio alarm clock — with a strong mint?? That’ll wake him up quick.
A husband wants his wife to love his penis — this reminds me: I need to write a post on this topic.
Tips for reaching orgasm together — we could do this easily enough every time, but I like to hold back. I find that I enjoy Sexy Corte’s orgasm more when I’m not distracted by my own.
Merry Christmas! If you’ve got a link you want to share, please put it in the comments!
I probably should have posted this last week, but it doesn’t really seem that hard to me. Figuring out what to get your wife for mother’s day takes some creativity and thought, but ladies, is it really difficult to pick something out for your husband that you know he’ll like? And no, it’s not a new tie.
- This year Sexy Corte treated me to double feature! So awesome.
- If you’ve been really naughty, maybe he needs to spank you
- Watch his favorite movie together and add in some casual oral sex
- Spice up the ordinary: topless haircut, lingerie dinner, or naked cleaning
- Pick just about anything from this list of sexy prizes
- Try something new — maybe you’ve said no before, but are willing to give it a shot now. You probably already know what this thing is for your husband.
Hope you husbands had a great Father’s Day! Did you do anything awesome?
Husbands, are you looking for a Mother’s Day gift for your wife that she’ll love, but doesn’t already have? Get her a tiara! There are a million options on Amazon that can be delivered before Sunday.
Here are a few things to look for:
- Material: Make sure it’s metal and not plastic!
- Size: Make sure it’s sized for an adult, not a child.
- Color: You can’t go wrong with silver with white jewels, but if your wife has a favorite gemstone you can probably find it.
- Reviews: As always, read the reviews.
So why would you want to buy your wife a tiara instead of (yawn) flowers?
- Make her feel special. She’s your princess, and she should dress like it!
- She has probably never worn a tiara (except possibly at your wedding) so you know you’ll make an impression with such a thoughtful and creative gift.
- Your kids will love it and enjoy treating her like a queen all day.
- Just imagine how sexy she’ll look wearing it… and nothing else.
What do you think, wives?
I was recently in a conversation with other women and we were talking about dating before marriage. One remembered seeking advice from a counselor about how far was “too far” to go before being married. Another laughed and said “it’s funny, before you are married, you always want to push the limit on how far you can go. After you are married you think, I have to do this again?!?!” It was meant to be funny, but in retrospect has made me sort of sad.
Has sex within marriage become a chore? Or merely a duty? Where did the excitement from dating go? Shouldn’t there be more of a spark within marriage because now you can have sex?! What happens?
Honestly, I don’t know. I can only speculate. My guess is that the tiredness of our busy lifestyles makes sex one of the first things we cut out of our hectic schedules. Sexy time with your spouse should be one of your most guarded appointments. You have to guard it, because no one else will. Your boss, kids or house won’t mind in the least if they suck up that extra time from you. Connecting with your spouse, emotionally and sexually, is one of the most important things you can do.
Another thought is that maybe one spouse isn’t feeling loved. If you haven’t read the Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman, I suggest you pick up a copy and start speaking to your spouse in their love language. I know I am definitely more responsive sexually when my “love tank” is full.
You and your spouse might also need better communication. If you do or don’t like something, speak up. As much as I think El Fury should be able to read my mind by now, I know that he can’t. This comes easy for some couples and for others it will take boldness. But the more you communicate about sex, the easier it gets. Do a re-cap after sex. Try saying “I really liked it when you…”
Or maybe you need to find a way to change your attitude about sex. Again, this could be easy or extremely difficult for some. No matter what, pray about it. Pray that you can see sex as the beautiful gift that God designed it to be. Pray that you would welcome those touches and caresses from your spouse and instead of thinking “again?” you would think, “YES, again!”.
God gave us sexual needs and spouses to fulfill those needs. One of the beautiful things about marriage is that you no longer have to worry about going “too far”. There are so many ways to enjoy each other. Embrace your time together and go have sex!
“Short” and “cold” aren’t the sexiest adjectives, but February can still be steamy!
A series on wifely orgasms — an ever-important topic for sex bloggers, to be sure.
Don’t badmouth your spouse to your friends. It’s sad that this needs to be said, but it’s very valuable advice.
Burn more calories while having sex. It’s win-win-win!
Be more adventurous in bed. Yes, the top 10 ways!
I sometimes come up with names in my head for things that Sexy Corte does, and she seems to get a kick out of it when I share. In this case, she thought my name was lame (true) and she rechristened the move as the “Double Feature”. Wives, if you’re looking for that perfect Christmas gift for your husband then this might just be it! The “Double Feature” is simple: he gets to come in your mouth and your vagina in the same day.
To give your husband a day he won’t forget, explain the “Double Feature” to him when he wakes up and tell him he can decide when he wants each showing. If you really want him to go crazy thinking about you all day, give him a ticket to carry around in his pocket.
This installment of Links of the Week is sure to rock your world!
Finding Friends to Support Your Marital Intimacy — Make friends that build up you and your marriage. Negative friends who constantly complain about their spouses won’t do your marriage any good. Brag about your spouse!
As I’ve perused the marriage blogosphere it’s clear that the female orgasm is one of the most prominent themes: ever-elusive; mysterious; husbands desperate to please their wives; distraught wives who just can’t seem to get there; frequent frustration. It’s easy for husbands to have orgasms, but it’s very common for wives to have a harder time achieving sexual satisfaction. To that end, I want to recommend “Satisfaction”.
The book is about “the art of the female orgasm”, and there’s a solid focus on the loving relationship between the couple. Aside from the expected advice to communicate and develop intimacy with your spouse, the book reads almost like an instruction manual for the female body — and that’s exactly the approach I was looking for when I bought it. I found the book to be extremely educational. It’s laser-focused on its single target: “helping a man fully satisfy a woman” — without toys. The philosophy of the book is that “every man can be an artist” when it comes to the female orgasm. It’s not that toys aren’t fun or handy, but the book intends to teach the reader how to please a woman with his own body.
Topics covered include:
- Basic anatomy, the clitoris, the g-spot
- Oral stimulation
- Using your fingers
- Anal stimulation
- Multiple orgasms
- A few simple medical issues (including premature ejaculation and the use of Viagra)
- Various communication topics
The book has no photographs in it whatsoever, but there are abundant diagrams and drawings that depict the referenced acts and body parts. The drawings are clinical in nature, but if you have a strong desire to avoid any depictions of nudity then this book is not for you. The diagrams are all helpful rather than titillating, and are essential for explaining some of the more esoteric movements and positions. If only for the diagrams, this book is better than searching the internet for information. Any internet searches are bound to lead you to pornography.
It’s also worth pointing out that the book is not written from a Christian/marriage perspective, but that won’t hinder your application of its techniques.
“Satisfaction” probably has something to teach everyone, and with the caveats above I strongly recommend it to anyone who loves female orgasms. Specifically, the book might be an excellent gift for newlyweds. Brides receive a plethora of gifts at their bridal showers, but “Satisfaction” might be the perfect gift for the groom who wants to please his new wife and has remained chaste until his wedding.
What resources have you used to learn about sex? Have you read any good books?