“He was thrilled!” — Swallowing and Enjoying It

One of the most gratifying aspects this blog is when we get feedback from a couple whose marriage has benefited from something we wrote. As follow-up to this post about swallowing, in the comments to this Q&A about swallowing and enjoying it, “K” writes:

So… I gave it a go and swallowed for the first time today. Thanks for the inspiration! :)

Sexy Corte
That’s great! Thanks for letting us know. Was your husband excited?

He was thrilled! :) It was an amazing way to bond- more than I could have imagined. You guys are awesome- don’t stop writing!!


  1. That’s good to know that a wife has benefited from these Post’s as my wife is noticing this also and more willing to go for it

  2. Before we were married, my girlfriend swallowed me a couple of times and I loved it. After getting married, she refused and said it was gross. She’ll blow me but immediately go to the sink and spit me out. I watch videos of women swallowing and fantasize being with them. I feel that if someone says they would swallow me, I might would let them. Jeopardizing my marriage for sure.

    1. You’re not the first man who has complained about a “bait and switch” from dating to marriage.

      First of all, though, let me strongly encourage you to stop watching porn. I know you know you shouldn’t be doing it, so I will echo your conscience.

      Second, I encourage you to talk with your wife directly. Many husbands get zero blow jobs, so don’t approach your wife with an accusatory attitude. Tell her that you appreciate oral sex and value your sexual relationship. Say something like, “I enjoy what you’re doing, and it would really mean a lot to me if you swallowed instead of spitting.” Explain your own reasons, but I suspect that your feelings on it are similar to mine: swallowing is extremely intimate and makes you feel accepted; spitting is a rejection.

      Third, see if either of you are interested in ejaculating onto her body. That can be a good alternative.

      Fourth, be thankful that you get oral sex 🙂

      1. I agree that you’re above average getting to have an orgazm in her mouth. Most men either don’t get oral at all, or have to finish with Ms. Kleenex. Really takes the fun out of the ending when you are grabbing tissues and hoping none gets in her mouth cause she’ll be grossed out. A spitter is better than nothing.

  3. What I love most about my wife’s lovemaking is knowing that she loves going down on me more than any woman ever has. I know it because of how she moans “uhuh uhuh!” while I drain into her mouth.

  4. I’m a Christian woman in my 40s, married with 3 kids and have an enjoyable sex life with husband. I want to please him and swallowing his semen has seemed like a big step to take. We enjoy oral sex a lot and I enjoy giving very much. We progressed to me first tasting and finally swallowing his sperm and it was very strange, like venturing onto new territory sexually. Like having sex for the first time, I was really nervous, wondering how it would taste and feel like. It’s such a powerful act, ejaculation, that I was afraid of “taking it’s full force” in my mouth. I’m glad I did, he enjoys it a lot and it has brought us closer together. Now I almost insist on swallowing every occasion I get! He likes how I embrace this seed of his that he produces, and I enjoy tasting his most intimate flavors and even enjoy the taste with the variation in taste and texture.

    1. @ Rita:

      That is a great account of how you worked up to be able to swallow comfortably. More wives need to be willing to give things a try and see how it works out. It really is not such a big deal after all. And, yes, swallowing can and does bring a wife and her husband closer. It is beautiful shared intimacy.

  5. I have only tried swallowing my husband once and it was on our honeymoon about a year ago. It ended with me running to the bathroom to spit it all out lol and us having a funny memory we have cherished since then. After reading this blog and these articles, I wanted to try again. Same results. I just can’t bring myself to swallow. We laughed again, but I apologized for just not being able to do it. I asked my sweet husband if swallowing is actually important to him, because if it was I would keep trying. His response was that it doesn’t matter to him if I swallow or not. He could care less. And I mean I really tried to get a yes out of him, but he honestly does not care. So I just wanted to add that while I’m sure most men prefer their wife to swallow, not all do, or not all men care as much as implied in the post and comments. When I offered to try swallowing again, his face did not light up like someone who had been suppressing the secret desire to do so and was suddenly given permission. It lit up like a husband about to get a blow job from his wife.

    1. Thanks for sharing your experience! Every person is different. Good on you for wanting to please your husband and for having great communication with each other.

  6. My wife has been willing to swallow when she gives me oral sex, perhaps because from day one I have asked her to share the taste with me in kisses afterwards. How can I ask her to swallow if I’m not willing to do the same?

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