Discover Your Spouse’s Fantasies With a Sex Questionnaire

Some sex topics can be awkward to bring up even if you and your spouse have great communication, especially when it comes to secret fantasies that may not be entirely mainstream. You may be afraid that your spouse will do more than say no — you may fear that he’ll judge you or even be disgusted. Hopefully your spouse is more open to hearing about your sexual desires, but the nervousness can be real nonetheless.

To open the lines of communication with a little less anxiety you might want to try taking one of these sex questionnaires with your spouse. There are probably many more options online, but these two will get you started. In both cases the questions are answered anonymously and the sites do not require registration. What’s more, the sites only share answers between spouses when both husband and wife indicate a positive response to a given activity. If you say “yes” to something but your spouse says “no” then your “yes” won’t be revealed.

In the best case, you and your spouse will discover an activity that you both have been dying to try but have been too afraid to bring up!

One huge caveat: these questionnaires contain short descriptions of activities that no Christian should participate in. If you don’t want to be exposed to such ideas then you should not take the tests.

Questionnaires:

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  1. I took this off “The Marriage Bed” forum from 2007 (Paul & Lori Byerly)
    http://www.boards.themarriagebed.com/viewtopic.php?t=21645#p315686

    It give a lot of options. Perhaps you need to do as we did and work thorough sections, one date night at a time. Also, the initiator of this should “weed out” parts that your partner is completely turned off to doing. You may keep this “weed out” list and show it to them later so they get the full benefit from it but with out feeling forced.
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